Why are we judging our self WRONG?

Do you have a problem? What kind of a stupid question is that huh? You might be thinking like this Na? Yes you are absolutely right. No one in this world is free from problems. Every human will have some kind of problem. Are problems a big problem for you? If yes be beware about your situation there is a very big chance of loosing hope. Most of us simply decide some things in life as if i am having the biggest problem in life we almost think as no one ever in life had experienced such a tragedy as i am having. At least once in our life we all have gone through this emotion right!

Are these right? We must think for a while very thoughtfully. Once in your life you have been in a very bad condition or sometimes you may in such condition now. now we must think, but we are always wrong in doing this - we think such things as - Why are these happening to me? Why is god so cruel to me? I can't face this situation? There is no meaning in living like this, No one can ever understand me, There is no way to get out of this, And there are many more arguments that we will raise to our self and we often finds difficult to get an answer for these questions. As a result we looses our hope, Forgets our duties, Our goals, The ones who love us, The ones who had lived their while life for us [parents] and there will a lot of things popping up your mind that you would forget. Is this for what we are made for? Are we so very afraid of just simple obstacles in life and are you sure that you will not have a more worst situation again in your life.

How could you live peacefully thinking of these things? You will make yourself mad,and is that you want? Never, every questions in your life has answer for it. God has never planned anything for you without intentions. And always have faith in yourself. Believe that you will have a better situation tomorrow. Great is the art of beginning but greater is the art of ending.....